When Mak Cik Bawang Starts Becoming More Understanding

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Assalamualaikum people,

This year, instead of asking 'Bila nak kahwin?', makcik2 yg dtg beraya asked me 'Dah ada calon belum?', and when I said no, they adviced me to start searching for one.

I love this because it shows me that they understand the fact that I had been busy with studies during uni and they were not judging me for not having 'marriage' as my top priority back then.

It also proves that people now are starting to adapt to the fact that it's common for 23+ yo to want to focus on building ourselves first before deciding to share our lives with another person.

Yes, I know that it's about time to start thinking about marriage, but having less pressure about it is highly appreciated. At least I won't be choosing a life partner in haste and just simply out of desperation. 💁🏻‍♀️

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