PLEASE, Focus on the Bigger Issues First.
Assalamualaikum..
Recently, a video went viral in Malaysia, where a women carrying her small child was seen 'lashing out' to her husband in the middle of a mall when she discovered that her husband had been cheating on her with another women. The video showed that the women was scolding her husband who was with his girlfriend in front of everyone (including the child she was carrying), and the video ended with the wife slapping her husband. Here's the videos;
Soooo.. Let's talk about one particular comment on this video, which is;
This person did reply to several of the comments on this particular tweet, so we can see his stand on this issue.
Okay.
This is what I would like to say to the person tweeting this, and everyone who agrees with him;
Our religion promotes love and justice, dude. But then, your tweet(s) on this issue doesn’t seem to reflect so. While your points may be right, all I mainly see is that you're ignoring the husband's fault altogether.
While it may not be true, it wouldn’t even be surprising if the word ‘zina’ would come to people’s minds.
Just FYI, there are different types of zina; mata, hati, etc., which should be referred to an expert for more information, because I am not one.
There so many things that could be debated on this issue, but my main take on this is;
One more thing, do be mindful of other people’s emotions because you’re not in their shoes.
Your opinions may be right, but sometimes, the way you execute your thoughts aren’t the best way and people get hurt by it. Please, BE NICE.
Okay, that's all from me today.
I hope everyone has a nice day, and till then..
Assalamualaikum.
Recently, a video went viral in Malaysia, where a women carrying her small child was seen 'lashing out' to her husband in the middle of a mall when she discovered that her husband had been cheating on her with another women. The video showed that the women was scolding her husband who was with his girlfriend in front of everyone (including the child she was carrying), and the video ended with the wife slapping her husband. Here's the videos;
Soooo.. Let's talk about one particular comment on this video, which is;
"buat lah kat suami awak mcm tu .. nak bagitahu je syurga bawah kaki suami .. mcm mana pon dia tetap suami awak .. pangkat dia adalah paling tinggi selepas Allah dan Rasul bagi seorang isteri .. dia SUAMI .. sbb tu dlm Alquran disebut isteri kena PATUH..", (Someone on Twitter, 2018)
This person did reply to several of the comments on this particular tweet, so we can see his stand on this issue.
Okay.
This is what I would like to say to the person tweeting this, and everyone who agrees with him;
Your mentality is very sadly disappointing.You're trying to find some other faults to criticize and focus on, while at the same time, disregarding the actual problem all together in regards to the main issue; The husband had been cheating on his wife and was spending a lot of time with his girlfriend, while leaving his wife ALONE at home to take care of THEIR child and house. Plus, only Allah knows what the husband has been doing during all those times he had been spending with the other women.
Our religion promotes love and justice, dude. But then, your tweet(s) on this issue doesn’t seem to reflect so. While your points may be right, all I mainly see is that you're ignoring the husband's fault altogether.
While it may not be true, it wouldn’t even be surprising if the word ‘zina’ would come to people’s minds.
Just FYI, there are different types of zina; mata, hati, etc., which should be referred to an expert for more information, because I am not one.
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| Source: https://thinkandletthink.com/2016/11/13/sigh-a-post-election-sermon/ |
There so many things that could be debated on this issue, but my main take on this is;
Please. ALWAYS start with handling and focusing on the bigger issues first. You can deal with the smaller issues later on as things are settled one by one.
One more thing, do be mindful of other people’s emotions because you’re not in their shoes.
Your opinions may be right, but sometimes, the way you execute your thoughts aren’t the best way and people get hurt by it. Please, BE NICE.
Okay, that's all from me today.
I hope everyone has a nice day, and till then..
Assalamualaikum.