Signs that you've moved on.

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Assalamualaikum..
Have you been thinking of how to know whether you've moved on from your recent breakup? 
Well, as far as I know (well, from experiences and whatsoever..), there are a few signs that shows that you might have eventually moved on..

  • There's no more 'goosebumps' when you talk or message each other.
Not anymore!

  • You don't feel that eager anymore for him to acknowledge you. Even if he didn't notice you, meh, you're fine.

  • You don't feel sad even if he/she has found someone else. It might come as a shock to you, but that's it, just a shock, no such thing as a searing pain or what-so-ever.
Well, in my case, it would be 'ex-boyfriend'.

  • You don't feel the urge to impress him/her anymore. You might even feel better if you're not connected to them anymore.
Actually, I do. Yes, I do.

  • You've finally be able to look at the opposite gender without guilt or thinking how he/she might have felt knowing that you're seeing someone else.
Oh. My. God.
I volunteer as tribute!!

  • All in all, you can finally accept him/her in your life without the imagination of going back together. They're just there, nothing more, nothing less.

  • The better ones are which you could finally become their best friend, acknowledging the past but letting the memories stay in the past. You're both just friends anyway, and are about to remain that way for the rest of your lives.

So, this meme here, is not you.
Not you. Nope.
So, all I can say for you guys out there is that you should

 

Believe in yourself!



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