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When Mak Cik Bawang Starts Becoming More Understanding

Assalamualaikum people, This year, instead of asking 'Bila nak kahwin?', makcik2 yg dtg beraya asked me 'Dah ada calon belum?', and when I said no, they adviced me to start searching for one. I love this because it shows me that they understand the fact that I had been busy with studies during uni and they were not judging me for not having 'marriage' as my top priority back then. It als o proves that people now are starting to adapt to the fact that it's common for 23+ yo to want to focus on building ourselves first before deciding to share our lives with another person. Yes, I know that it's about time to start thinking about marriage, but having less pressure about it is highly appreciated. At least I won't be choosing a life partner in haste and just simply out of desperation. 💁🏻‍♀️